I am not playing games

Bullies are drawn to me, I know not why.

They don’t seem like bullies at first. But whatever agreement we have made, soon enough they try to change it to something else they like better. And of course my not agreeing to the change is being unreasonable.

The latest example we helped out by giving him a room to stay. We told him going in we had no parking, and room could only be for one. He had no car or girl, he said, and in the first week both appeared, and he parked in our driveway  blocking the traffic pattern.i of course was unreasonable and playing games to object.

Now we have a smart door lock, finger print or code, and he had his own code. It has two states: private and general. In private only admins (homeowners) codes work. It is a slide bar on the inside of the door, and people when careless bump it to private when exiting, locking themselves out.

The current bully cannot admit he had ever locked himself out, so I must be playing games with him every time he gets locked out.

Today I was 20 feet from the door working with my power drills when he came back from somewhere, punched in his code and entered. Seconds later he was back out the door, only to turn around and try to enter again, but was locked out. I had not moved toward the door and no one else had come near it since he succeeded with his code the first time, but I had locked him out.

He cursed me and offered me to stop playing games and let him in. Not polite asking but obscene orders.

I told him I had not locked the door on him and I wouldn’t unlock the door for him when he locked it on himself.

But I would go around and open it for him. But while I was doing that he stole both of my power to the drills and walked off with them telling me I have them back when I unlocked the door for him.

He never plays games he says. Yet he picked up a taser and activated it in his room because I could hear the sound outside and then claimed it was him getting shocked from the light fixture in his room. Which is interesting since I had turned the circuit off after I had become aware he had torn the pull string out of  it and repaired it without telling me by leaving bare wires hanging out.

He used the taser noise twice to claim that he has been shocked by the powerless circuit, which of course it wasn’t a game it was intimidation. So I didn’t said anything either time that he did so waited for my moment and disarmed him. I’m waiting for him to find out he’s disarmed.

The police of course can do nothing when someone who lives with you steals from you, so I am out two drills and only his word to the police that he will return them to me after work.

I am not playing games. I have done and will do nothing to prevent him from entering the residence. But I am not required to be his puppet or lapdog so he can lock himself out on purpose just to make me have to unlock the door.  I will not play his game. If he locks himself out, that is not my fault or responsibility. On that case I am not preventing him from entering, he is preventing himself from entering, both physically by the positive act of throwing the lock, and socially by being rude and obnoxious in his hour of need to his most likely benefactor.

Okay bully, go call the police. Coward. Weakling. Ingrate. And badly dressed (gasp!)