This past weekend we had a birthday party. Today I will post pictures from the initial birth that spawned that party.
This was the second time I became a father, my first — and only — son. We could have asked to know the gender before he was born, but we chose to be surprised. So it was then that I first knew I had a son.
I think about my dad, and thought about him then. He had raised both my brother and me to be ourselves, not to be him. I realized how much of him he had given me, by not trying to make me in his image, and hoped then, and hope now, that I am giving that same gift to my son, who is now a young man — a young man that I have heard girls call “the man with the luscious hair”.
From the looks of these pictures, he had enough hair back then too.
He certainly has grown since then.




